Denise Rita Pare of Lowell, MA

1950 - 2024

Visitation

February 21, 2024
11 A.M. - 2 P.M.
Dolan Funeral Home, 106 Middlesex Street, N. Chelmsford

Funeral

February 21, 2024
2 P.M.
Dolan Funeral Home, 106 Middlesex Street, N. Chelmsford

Denise Rita Pare, 73, of Lowell, MA passed away peacefully Wednesday, February 14, 2024 at Lowell General Hospital.

She was the beloved wife to Albert Pare with whom she would have celebrated their 54th wedding anniversary on September 13, 2024.

Born in Lowell, MA, she was the first child to arrive for the late Rene R. Brouillette and Rita Bechard.

She graduated from Lowell High School, Lowell, MA, with the class of 1967. Soon after marrying Al and deciding to live in Lowell and start their family. She was a communicant of St. Margaret of Scotland Church.

Denise held numerous jobs that allowed her to be a wife and mom first and would always find something to enjoy about them all. Her final job was her favorite, she began a career as a front office secretary at Lowell High School where she would make many new friends and be lucky enough to work with already established friends. She retired in 2015. She was part of the “old school” generation of wives and homemakers, where dinner was on the table every night of the week and the house was always in order. Whether it was pride, nervous energy, or nicotine Denise had endless amounts of energy to clean and do laundry. If you wore a shirt and it got dirty on Monday? You could bet the stain would be gone and it would be folded on your bed by Tuesday. When she did take a breath or time for herself her favorite place would be on a beach on a cloudless day. Or laying in her pool on a float with a delicious ice tea (but in the shallow end because she couldn’t swim). She was given the nickname “Dooms Day” (After the famous 60” Dallas Cowboy defense) by her football loving husband for her amazing ability to spread dread on a wide variety of subjects. If it was going to snow? “We were getting buried” If there was a sporting event? “Oh, jeez they are gonna lose” and also her ability to put an end to “get togethers” her family would have by shutting lights, wrapping food and locking doors quite often while people were still sitting in her living room. Later in life she enjoyed watching her grandchildren’s sporting events and spending time with her best bud Fitzy.

Besides her husband, she is survived by her daughter, Christine L. Pare and her son Cole of Lowell, MA, her son, Scott and Christine (Landry) Pare and their children Brady, Brock & Lacey of Lowell, MA, her mom Rita living in Lowell, MA, her sister, Diane and Robert McLeod of Lowell, MA, her brothers, Robert Brouillette and Karen of N. Hampton, NH, David Brouillette and Peetze of Petaluma, CA, and Gary Blouin of Lowell, MA, a brother-in-law, Dennis and his wife, Beverly Pare of Lowell, MA , a sister-in-law, Laurie Menard of Palm Beach Fla, and many nieces and nephews.

FUNERAL NOTICE

Visiting hours Wednesday, February 21, 2024 from 11-2 P.M.at DOLAN FUNERAL HOME, 106 MIDDLESEX STREET, N. CHELMSFORD, MA followed by a prayer service at 2 P.M.

ARRANGEMENTS BY DOLAN FUNERAL HOME 978-251-4041. Guestbook at www.dolanfuneralhome.com.

22 Condolences for Denise Rita Pare of Lowell, MA

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    Karel overlock & Family

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    My Family is thinking of you all during this difficult time.

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    gerard C BEAUSOLEIL

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    i never met you, but i had the luxury of meeting some of your children and grandkids throughout the years. .you raised a beautiful family .may you rest in eternal peace. god bless you .

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    Veronica

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    Denise you were one in a million, you will be missed. Love and prayers to the family

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    EDWARD CAULFIELD

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    MAY THE GOOD LORD, HOLD DENISE, IN THE PALM OF HIS HAND AND MAY HER MEMORY BE ETERNAL. OUR Thoughts and prayers, are with DENISE AND THE PARE FAMILY. THE CAULFIELD FAMILY.

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    Ted & Sue Leoutsakos

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    Our condolences to the beautiful family you raised Denise. You were an amazing woman responsible for the loving family you and Al have raised. May you now rest in Peace with the Angels in heaven. Rest easy beautiful Lady. 🙏❤️🙏

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    Bill Suzie Jenny Buttah Jason Cathy

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    A life beautifully lived. Rest In Peace Denise 🕊️🕊️🕊️

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    Ann & Dennis Scannell

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    Dooms was the very best….always so friendly. She was more than perfect in her position at LHS. The students tried but could never pull anything on her…..she had seen and heard it all…..Denise was a wonderful person and head of very involved Lowell Family….Rest in Peace……

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    Susan (Barnes) Nealon

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    Al, so sorry – we all know you and Denise were true Soulmates. You are Blessed with a beautiful family and SO many precious memories- And – We all had great times at LHS ‘67. Denise is at Peace in a better place.. and will always be by your side … until you meet again 🙏 God Bless

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    Jill Christiansen

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    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope all of those wonderful memories will help comfort you. May she rest in peace, until you meet again….🙏❤️

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    Linda Cowan

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    Bob and I send our deepest condolences. Our boys played ball together years ago. I worked at LHS . Denise was the face of Lowell High. Not an easy spot. So sorry Al

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    Maura & Joe Quinn

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    Our deepest condolences.

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    Robert D Jackson

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    My thoughts and prayers are with Al, Christine, Scott and family. God bless you all.
    With condolences,
    Jackson

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    Nancy C Silva

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    To Christine : Paul and I are deeply saddened to hear about the passing of your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your Family.

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    Mike Burns

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    My deepest condolences to Al and Scott on the loss of a wife and mother. Let her memories be eternal. Sympathy to Diane McLeod for loss of her sister. May she rest in peace.

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    Donna (Mitchell) Keefe

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    Al, I am so sorry for your loss. Growing up with you and Denise was fun. She was a beautiful person.

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    Michelle G

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    Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this difficult time. Wishing you peace during this difficult time.
    Michelle, George and family

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    Helen Quinlan Littlefield

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    My sincere sympathy to Denise’s family. I also knew her from LHS, where she was a fixture in the main office. Denise was honest, direct, and funny, and I usually left the office smiling at something she had said. May many good memories help ease your sadness.

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    Michael Cremin

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    So sorry to hear about Denise passing. She was a strong woman with a beautiful soul. I always enjoyed her humor, and the give and take banter between her and Al, at family gatherings.
    My sincere condolences on the loss of your beloved Denise to Al, Scott, Christine, Diane McLeod, Bob Brouillette, Denise’s grandchildren, and her mom; Rita, and all the family and friends.
    Rest in peace and eternal happiness Denise.

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    Diane Robarge

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    Al and family, I am so sorry for your loss. RIP Denise

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    Kathy Cremin Jonasch

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    My sincere condolences to the entire family of Denise. I was very sorry to hear of her passing. May God be with you all during this time of grief. Hold on to all the joyous memories in your hearts.

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    David Cremin

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    My condolences.Denise was a wonderful person .God Bless

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    Sheila Kirschbaum

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    I am so terribly sad to learn of Denise’s passing. She was such a wonderful neighbor, and I was happy to have a great visit with her at her “new” place not that long ago. My deepest sympathies to all the family. She loved you all so much, and the joy at the many backyard pool parties over all those years was full of your love for her. She will be deeply missed.

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