1928 - 2022
Visitation
January 24, 20223-7 P.M.
Dolan Funeral Home, 106 Middlesex St., Chelmsford, MA
Funeral
January 25, 202211 A.M.
Carlisle Congregational Church
Rev. Robert A. Noy of Chelmsford died January 13, 2022. Born in Somerville, MA on August 7, 1928 he was the son of the late Clarence and Jean (Hurd) Noy. He graduated from Arlington High School and received an associate of arts degree from Vallejo College in California and earned a bachelor’s, master’s degrees and a certificate of Advanced Graduate Study from Boston University.
Mr. Noy taught in the Lexington Public schools, and served as principal in the Chelmsford, Lexington, Westford, and Sudbury school systems in a career spanning 35 years.
He studied at Gordon-Conwell Theological seminary in South Hamilton, MA and was ordained to the Christian Ministry in 1992. Reverend Noy was a chaplain at Bethany houses in Haverhill, MA; pastored the Evangelical Congregational Church in Tyngsborough for many years, and served as interim pastor of Trinity Baptist Church in Arlington. He was a long-time member of the Carlisle Congregational Church where he served as elder for several years. A veteran of the Korean War, he served in the US Air Force from 1950 to 1953 as a Staff Sergeant.
He was a member of Phi Delta Kappa, a three term trustee of the Chelmsford Library, past president of the Massachusetts Library Trustees Association, a trustee of New England Bible College in South Portland, Maine, and a member of the board of directors of the Boston University Alumni Association. He enjoyed his family, spending time with people, the Maine seacoast, traveling, and woodworking.
Besides his wife he is survived by his two daughters and their husbands; Bette and James Kacavas of Chelmsford, MA, and Laurie and John Fitzgerald of Capistrano, Beach, CA, and his five grandchildren; Julie Kacavas, Sarah Kacavas, Allison Nielsen, Ryan Fitzgerald, and Samantha Fitzgerald.
Robert was the father of the late Nancy Jane Noy.
Visiting hours Monday, January 24, 2022 from 3:00 P.M. to 7:00 P.M. at the Dolan Funeral Home. Funeral Tuesday, January, 25, 2022 at 11:00 A.M. at the Carlisle Congregational Church. For the safety of all, please wear a mask while attending Bob’s services. ARRANGEMENTS BY DOLAN FUNERAL HOME 978-251-4041. Guestbook at www.dolanfuneralhome.com
Bernard Battle
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Although I never worked for Rev Noy when he was a Chelmsford Principal, I know how respected he was by his students. He was legendary for knowing all the names of the students in his care. He was a good man.
Lynne McSheehy
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Mr. Noy was so welcoming every time I subbed at Westlands School in the late ’80’s. He made it so easy for me to feel comfortable. He was such a kind man.
Jean-Pierre Lambert
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To Mrs. Noy and your daughters; please accept my sincere condolences, in the passing of your beloved husband and father. It was my distinct pleasure to have known him; through the eloquence of his words, the sage advice he would gently offer, and the genuine nature of his kindness. And I am indebted to him for that kindness; he was gracious enough to have performed the eulogies at both of my parents’ funeral masses. Though, I am no longer a resident of Chelmsford; I will miss talking to him, as I would take the occasional neighborhood walk. He was a paragon for what a true gentleman should aspire to be. May he rest in Eternal Peace and may beautiful memories carry you all but well.
~ J.P. Lambert
Tom and Judy Wilson
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We are so sorry to hear of Bob’s passing. He was the best Principal to all of our kids at Westlands! And, he never forgot anyone’s name! We were honored to volunteer for the various activities at school, and I loved Substitute teaching at Westlands. Sincere condolences to his family! With deepest sympathy, Tom, Judy, Janel, Scott, and Kyle Wilson
David Hedison
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I had sent a message to him when I learned he was at Sunny Acres during the peak of COVID. I asked the staff to please let him know how much he was loved and respected. He was at Westland School during the time I was a student and I had never forgotten his kindness, love of students and ability to make each student feel special. Rest In Peace – you made a difference in so many lives. David Hedison
Carol Tyrie Messina
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When I first came to Fiske School in Lexington, Mr. Noy was my principal. I remember his as a true gentleman and a very supportive and kind person.
Elsa, I always think of you when I still make your recipe for Swedish Tea Cake. I will keep Mr. Noy and your family in my prayers. Carol Messina (Tyrie at that time)
Carol Tyrie Messina
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When I first came to Fiske School in Lexington as a music teacher, Mr. Noy was my principal. He was a true gentleman and a very supportive and kind person. Elsa, I still make your recipe for the Swedish tea cake which is always a hit. I think of you each time I make it. So sorry for your loss. I will keep him and your family in my prayers. Carol Messina (Carol Tyrie at that time)
Linda A Hall
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I am deeply saddened to learn of Mr. Noy’s passing. He was a very warm soft spoken man, and those qualities were essential during his tenure as principal of Westlands School. I became a volunteer in the library when my daughter was in the fifth grade, and thanks to Mr. Noy, that grew into a full time job that I enjoyed for 22 years.
Gail Flannery
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What a gracious, kind and lovely man. The love of my dear friend Elsa’s life. Bob was always so complimentary of everyone and an absolute gentleman. We were all blessed to know him. Rest in peace
Tom Christiano
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I’m so sorry for your loss. Robert was such a nice man …. always so friendly towards me, and always with a big smile…..and with that beautiful voice.
He will be greatly missed by everyone. ❤
Pat Connor
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To know Mr. Noy is to remember him. When he came to Center School, a gentle, kind man who was fair and dedicated to our school and all of us walked into our lives never to be forgotten. As a teacher working with him was uplifting and enlightening. Thank you, Mr. Noy, for years of caring……..rest in peace. You were loved by many.
Robin LeGacy
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Mr Noy was my principal at the New Nabnassett School. He was a wonderful, kindhearted gentle man. He never forgot your name or the name of everyone in your family.
Rest in peace.
Robin LeGacy
Scott Sparks
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Your dad was a truly loved friend of my father’s. They were principals together and remained very close for many years. Your father gave the eulogy at both my parent’s funerals and he was so very supportive to our family throughout the process. We cannot thank him and your mother enough for their kindness. He was a great man.
Carol Merriam
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So sorry to read about Mr. Noy’s death. He was a wonderful neighbor here in West Chelmsford! Also he was a very supportive wonderful principal when we worked together on the Chelmsford Council of Schools for a good 10 years. Miss seeing him walking Main St. Love to you Elsa and your family ❤️
Bette & George DiPrimio
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So sorry to read about Bob’s death. I shared 14 years working with him as secretary in the Westland School until he retired as Principal. He was a wonderful supportive Principal. At this difficult time ,Elsa and family, may you find comfort in knowing that others share in your sorrow. Our treasured memories will remain forever.