Constance “Connie” (Scarmeas) Delmore, 82, of Chelmsford, MA died Thursday, February 4, 2021 at her home.

Born in Lowell, she was the daughter of the late John and Evridiki Scarmeas.   She graduated from Lowell High School with the class of 1956.

Connie was a longtime resident of Chelmsford. She was a respected real estate agent for more than 50 years; her last 21 spent with Coldwell Banker Realty of Chelmsford. She was tenacious, but compassionate; often times donating her time, energy and income to those clients less fortunate. In spite of that petite frame, everyone in the real estate community looked up to her, respected and revered her.

She is survived by two sons, John and his wife Kristin Delmore of Chelmsford and David and his wife Kate Delmore of Sudbury; two brothers, Bill Scarmeas of Palm Beach Shores, FL and Chris and his wife, June Scarmeas of Lowell; five grandchildren, Darius Delmore, Jasmine Delmore, Ash Delmore, Drew Delmore and Noah Safar, her half-sister Jennifer Seale and her husband Johnny and six nieces, Kristal Lavelle of Westford, Vicki Scarmeas of Chelmsford, Kelley and her husband, Dr. Sharif Nankoe of Burlington, VT, Nicole Scarmeas of Lowell, Audrey and Karen Patenaude of Lowell, MA.

She was the sister of the late Pauline Scarmeas, who died April 16, 2014.

DELMORE, Constance “Connie” (Scarmeas) Delmore of Chelmsford, MA died Thursday, Feb. 4, 2021. Visitation will be Fri. from 10 to 11am at Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church, 62 Lewis St., Lowell, MA followed by a Funeral Service at 11am.  Due to Covid-19 restrictions seating is limited.  Burial in Westlawn II Cemetery, Lowell. ARRANGEMENTS BY DOLAN FUNERAL HOME 978-251-4041. Guestbook at www.dolanfuneralhome.com.

Sieklim Sie, 80, of Shirley, MA died Thursday, December 31, 2020 at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston.

She was married to the late Song Yong who passed away on January 5, 2020.

Born in Prey Veng, Cambodia, she was the daughter of the late Lim Sie and Mol Pan. Sieklim and her husband co-owned and operated a jewelry store in Cambodia. She came to the United States from Cambodia in August of 2011.

She was a member of Glory Buddhist Temple of Lowell, MA where she was a devout Buddhist. Sieklim enjoyed walking and traveling but above all else she enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. One thing that her family will remember her most by was her generosity.

She is survived by her sons and their spouses Leang Song of Cambodia, Chhean An and Nea Nay of Los Angeles, CA, Piseth Kong and Thany Long of Cambodia, Tonghap Song and Eang Hout of Cambodia, Tonghak Song and Nee Cher of Cambodia, her daughters and their spouses, Sour An and Chamroeun Leang of Cambodia, Srey Song and and Meng Hor of Cambodia, and Borany and Brandon Eang of Shirley, MA.

Sie, Sieklim of Shirley, MA died December 31, 2020. Funeral Thursday, January 7, 2021 at 12:30 PM from the DOLAN FUNERAL HOME 106 MIDDLESEX ST. CHELMSFORD, followed by a funeral procession to Westlawn II Cemetery in Lowell, MA. ARRANGEMENTS BY DOLAN FUNERAL HOME 978-251-4041. Guestbook at www.dolanfuneralhome.com

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• Assumption of the Virgin Mary Greek Orthodox Church Dracut

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• Church of Jesus Christ of LDS – Lowell, MA
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• Roman Catholic Archdiocese of Boston
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Your presence at a wake is more moving than anything you can say. Attending wakes and funerals is a selfless act. Remember, your primary goal is to comfort a family whose life is in total chaos.

If the a wake service is starting or about to start while you are at the wake, you should stay for the short service; otherwise no.

Yes, if the deceased or a family member is a co-worker or know you through your employment.

Your preference. It is very thoughtful to send a card with a short note of sympathy or a favorite memory of the deceased. E-Mail & Online Guest book.

Yes, it is okay to touch the deceased. However, you may get cosmetics on you if you touch the skin. A shoulder or arm would be a better choice.

Yes, as long as the immediate family cannot overhear your conversation.

Generally speaking the answer to this question is no; unless you have medical issues. Introduce yourself “Hello, I was one of Joe’s co-workers. I am sorry for your loss. I will miss his humor in the office”

Family members should arrive 10 to 15 minutes before the scheduled wake starts, and stay during the entire wake. If you believe it will be crowded, arrive 5 minutes before the scheduled time or arrive during the last half hour of the wake. Do not come during the first half hour of the scheduled time.

There is no correct answer to this question. Consider the following:

• If the family asks you to stay for awhile.
• If you feel that your presence is a comfort to the family, stay.
• Consider the number of people at the wake.
• Consider your relationship to the deceased.

The short answer is no. Families will specify if the cemetery service is to be private.

• If the family request the cemetery service to be private.
• If you are a friend of the family or co-worker ~ acquaintance.
• If the Cemetery is Distant
• If you are assisting in hosting the remembrance meal